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Insight into Bereavement

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Insight Into BereavementInsight Into Bereavement
(Waverley Abbey Insight Series)

Wendy Bray and Diana Priest
ISBN 9781853453854 (1853453854)
CWR, 2006 (98pp)
£7.5

Category: Death & Bereavement
Reviewed by: Colin Green

This book is an excellent introduction to the issues of bereavement, focusing predictably on death, but touching many other aspects of loss and grief.

The authors offer sensitive insights tempered by their own experiences, with flowing language and practical illustrations of principles being examined. It would be unfair to expect too much of this book. It is not a complete compendium. If it were such, then one suspects its target audience would be overwhelmed. On the contrary, this compact book could well be placed in the hands of those experiencing bereavement and looking for greater understanding of both themselves and the issues they are dealing with. Equally it will serve as a wide and inspiring read for those seeking to support the bereaved.

It came as a surprise to find that the first chapter explores “What is death?” since it may at first sight seem painfully obvious. Predictably the reader discovers some very thoughtful deeper insights into the meaning of death and it is so helpful for this somewhat taboo subject to be drawn sensitively out of the closet into the open, yet in the sunlight of The Loving Father.

Other topics include an explanation of bereavement, loss and the varied journeys through bereavement. It also includes insights into remembrance, lament and being touched by God’s love on the bereavement journey.

The advice given is sometimes very practical indeed, such as suggestions on how to cope with mood swings. Another down to earth example is this, “If the bereaved person is able to cope with tiny bits of the day, they will cope longer term. Having control over a small piece of life — making a cup of tea — reminds them they are not falling apart.” The book also includes some valuable thoughts about taking care of the carers, so that they also receive support and refreshment in order to be able to continue their invaluable ministry. It touches briefly on helping children through their grief, although for those deeply immersed in that aspect of supporting the brereaved, this book will only serve as a very useful starting point.

The wonder of this book is that whilst it is concise it is in no way trite, but is indeed a precious resource for any who are touched by bereavement and as such it is heartily commended by this reviewer.

Colin Green, October 2008

Colin Green is a recently retired school teacher, with personal experience both of bereavement and of leading funeral services, including a funeral oration for a twelve year old pupil. Colin is now embarking on a ministry of leading funeral services and is training as a counsellor. Find out more at www.chaplaincolingreen.org.uk.

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Message in the Sand: Introducing A New Children’s Hero

Message in the Sand (front cover)

I met Charmaine Aserappa at the church my wife, Sue, and I attended last weekend, St Francis of Assisi, Isleworth. Charmaine told me about her forthcoming book, Message in the Sand, and kindly sent me a pre-publication pdf copy. I loved it, both the story and the pictures: simply but powerfully told, boldly and beautifully illustrated, and I’m looking forward to seeing the final published version. In the meantime, I’ve invited Charmaine to tell us all about it. She writes:

The tide recently brought in an intriguing invitation, which had travelled across the globe, from Manila to Boston to San Francisco to London. The executive director of CANVAS, a sophisticated arts/environment non-profit organization, liked my first book, In a Japanese Garden, a meditation on Nature. He invited me to write an environmental children’s book for a Filipino artist to illustrate, and I was honoured to accept.

Message in the Sand, pp.8-9

Message in the Sand, pp.8-9

The beautiful beaches I have been blessed to enjoy, on the Arabian Sea and on the Indian, Pacific and Atlantic Oceans, compelled me to choose marine pollution as the environmental focus of the book, Message in the Sand. An art book for children, it introduces the young eco-champion, Miguel, a new kind of hero for a multi-ethnic world.

Miguel loves the sea and sets out to save it. He is armed only with faith, imagination and his mother’s love and encouragement; his only weapons are those that the sea has provided for its own preservation – seashells, seaweed and sand. With these simple tools, Miguel must battle two giants: the powerful mining company, whose toxic waste is ruining the beach and killing the beautiful fish and seabirds; and the powerful ocean that keeps washing away his words.

The book teaches gentle lessons in perseverance, and in finding unusual and peaceful means to effect change. It inspires and empowers children to act against seemingly insurmountable odds, showing us how even one child can make a difference.

Message in the Sand, pp.12-13

Message in the Sand, pp.12-13

Message in the Sand showcases the magnificent sandy beaches, fascinating fish and exotic coral reefs and seabirds of the Philippines, its exquisite paintings transporting us to the beach, by detailing the iridescence and shapes of shells, the shades and powerful surge of the waves, the lush tropical plants and the texture of the sand.

Gigo Alampay of CANVAS assigned the rising young artist Roel Obemio to illustrate Message in the Sand, and it has been thrilling to see Roel tenderly and amusingly render my story in brilliantly colourful, large-scale acrylic-on-canvas paintings, portraying the characters as unforgettable and endearing. His signature naïf style is inspired by the bountiful art of Fernando Botero of Colombia.

I grew up with great respect and admiration for the divine creation, and the need to conserve it. My father photographed wildlife in Asia and Africa, my uncle was the Conservator of Forests for Sri Lanka, and I delighted in Nature from an early age. Message in the Sand makes us aware of how we all share this wonderful but fragile planet, and how children must be taught that caring for it is the sacred duty of every human being.

Miguel, named for the Archangel, also fights a spiritual battle. These days, many books exploit and endanger children by exposing them to witchcraft, the occult, sorcery, magic, horror, and the depressing side of life. Miguel bucks this unsavoury trend, offering parents an alternative hero for their young children. Active and positive, he lives in the real, not the fantasy world, he is challenged to overcome its real evils; he places his hope in prayer, not in spells… and he has the victory.

The book, and a complete range of attractive giftware featuring the paintings from Message in the Sand are available on www.canvasdownstream.com. All proceeds will benefit CANVAS promotions of Philippine art, culture and the environment.

True to its international origins, Message in the Sand will be given a dual launch: the prestigious Ayala Museum in Manila will launch Message in the Sand in the East on November 27th 2008, with a major exhibition of the paintings from the book; and the Embassy of the Philippines in London will launch it in the West. May it sail on, to spread its message all over the world, to the greater glory of God.

Charmaine Aserappa

About the Author
Charmaine Aserappa volunteers as Communications Officer of an Anglican church in London named in honour of St. Francis of Assisi, patron saint of the environment. She worked for the finest book publishing houses in Toronto, New York and London and now promotes human rights.

Her first book, In a Japanese Garden, (with woodcuts by Akiko Naomura; Council Oak Books, San Francisco, USA 1999) is a Publisher’s Weekly Top Ten Gift Book, an Amazon.com Five Star, ‘Most Wished For Book’ in Christian Poetry and ‘Most Gifted Book’. In a Japanese Garden appears on Bestseller Lists all over the world in categories as diverse as philosophy, architecture, the environment and poetry, and is used in many schools.

Ms. Aserappa is the daughter of an English mother and a Sri Lankan father, and has lived in Asia, North America and Europe. Her son, Nicolas, is an artist, photographer and writer.

20 Years of New Creation

New Creation, Tiverton

New Creation, Tiverton

Congratulations to New Creation Christian Book & Coffee Shop, Tiverton, which celebrated 20 years of trading on October 4th this year. The milestone anniversary was marked by knocking prices in the café back to their 1988 levels.

Speaking to the Exeter Express & Echo, Maureen Rendell, one of the shop’s trustees, explained:

“We have copies of the very first menu and although it has changed little over the years we can see that prices have gone up by nearly four times. When we opened, a cup of coffee was just 25p.” … 

“It’s a way of saying ‘thank you’ to all our loyal customers who have supported us over the years,” Mrs Rendell said. “Without them the shop would not be here.Click here!

“Unfortunately, we can not do the same in the bookshop end, although customers will find that we try to keep our prices as competitive as possible.”

Range, Availability and Convenience: Eden’s Challenge to Christian Bookshops

In a Press Release issued on 1st October 2008 [1] — full copy below — Gareth Mulholland of Eden.co.uk has thrown down a gauntlet to bricks and mortar Christian retailers:

‘Range’, ‘Availability’ and ‘Convenience’ are the top three reasons that customers say they now shop with Eden.co.uk instead of their local Christian Bookshop. This is contrary to the popular opinion that ‘price’ is the primary concern.

It’s a challenge that those of us running local Christian bookshops cannot afford to ignore, but at the same time it presents a dilemma for those who have concerns about doctrinal and theological issues. This blog’s all time most visited post is “Christian Bookshops — who needs them?” where the criticisms levelled against Christian bookshops seem to come down to two extremes: either they stock too narrow a range or they stock too broad a range… Go figure! For others, however, price really is the issue and they will shop around for the cheapest possible deal.

All three — range, availability and convenience — are, however, areas in which Eden only has the cutting edge if we give it to them. Range is largely a question of perception: a website is infinitely expandable whereas a bricks and mortar store has physical limits; but there’s no reason why we can’t display publishers’ brochures, catalogues and flyers; or why we can’t use online services to display the broader range of stock we can order on request.

Availability is only an issue if we’re incompetent or short staffed: at LST I only have physical space for around 2,000 titles; but hundreds of thousands of other titles are available for next day delivery from STL or Gardners; many more are available within 3 to 5 days via PubEasy or direct from the publishers; and a massive range is available from STL USA within a week. My constant battle is unpacking the boxes and processing goods in as fast as my suppliers deliver them…

As for convenience: what could be more convenient than walking out of the shop with a book in your hand? Than placing an order at 3pm and receiving an email at 11am the next day to say that your book is in? No need to wait around for the postman or courier: that’s all taken care of for you… and with so much less stress on the environment: none of the wastage involved in having each book individually wrapped and delivered. In these days of increasing environmental awareness we’d do well to emphasise our green credentials.

Meanwhile it seems that Eden have a distinctly unfair advantage with backing and funding for their expansion from the Welsh Development Agency… 

Press Release dated 1 September 2008: [1]

CHRISTIAN BOOK SALES UP 75% AT EDEN.CO.UK
Momentum builds with support from the Welsh Development Agency

Eden.co.uk has announced that book sales in September were up 75% on last year and that the company is on course to hit a target of 100% annual growth by the end of its financial year in January.

Gareth Mulholland, Managing Director, expects a surge of customers shopping online for the very first time between now and Christmas. “Our rate of growth is actually accelerating so our targets and plans are being rewritten. We are preparing to dispatch over 1000 book orders a day during peak periods in November and December.”

Fast growth can be difficult for small businesses but Eden is being supported by the Welsh Development Agency who have already provided grants towards training and development. The WDA is part-funding an intense period of business planning with the School of Management at Cranfield University, meanwhile another significant investment from the WDA is expected in early 2009 to develop new sales channels for christian books in the UK.

“Last July we moved into new premises on the other side of Chester and we are now ten metres over the border into Wales. The Welsh Development Agency has recognised our potential and is helping to ensure our growth and stability by providing us financial support along with experienced ‘mentors’ from leading businesses in North Wales.”

‘Range’, ‘Availability’ and ‘Convenience’ are the top three reasons that customers say they now shop with Eden.co.uk instead of their local Christian Bookshop. This is contrary to the popular opinion that ‘price’ is the primary concern.

Note
[1] Although the press release is dated 1 September 2008, it was released on 1 October 2008:
Eden.co.uk: Press Release 01/10/2008 (pdf, 56kb)

The Evangelical Universalist: Take #2

The Evangelical Universalist

Earlier this year I featured an interview with Gregory MacDonald, pseudonymous author of The Evangelical Universalist: The biblical hope that God’s love will save us all (9780281059881, SPCK, 2008).

In my introduction to that interview I said that, given the struggle many evangelicals have when it comes to thinking outside the box, it’s hardly surprising that this book has attracted a certain amount of controversy and criticism. But the following review by Brian Kerr in this month’s Christian Marketplace, which gives the book a one star rating out of a possible five, struck me as a splendid example of how not to engage with a book:

If you ask me, the title of this book is an oxymoron and shows how the term ‘evangelical’, which means a Christian who believes in the supremacy of scripture, has been devalued. It is surely significant that MacDonald (not the author’s real name) begins with philosophy rather than scripture. It seems to me that he had reached a universalist conclusion before he even opened his Bible! The book illustrates that when one comes to the scriptures with one’s theological position already worked out, one will be able to find support for it there! It seems to me that MacDonald reads universalism into scripture rather than reading out what is there. MacDonald believes in redemption from hell, i.e. that people will have a chance to repent and believe after death, and that even the devil will ultimately be saved, and wants to convince his readers that his universalism is a legitimate evangelical option. He hasn’t convinced this reader! I couldn’t recommend this book to anyone.

“It seems to me,” says Kerr, “that he had reached a universalist conclusion before he even opened his Bible!” — which seems, unfortunately, to be the very approach that Kerr has taken to this book…

Taking umbrage at the title’s bringing together of two concepts that he finds mutually incompatible, rather than engage with the issues raised Kerr dismisses the entire book by reiterating this assessment:

The book illustrates that when one comes to the scriptures with one’s theological position already worked out, one will be able to find support for it there! It seems to me that MacDonald reads universalism into scripture rather than reading out what is there. 

Steady on, old chap: I think you’ve already said that! MacDonald’s arguments may fail to convince and his re-reading of scripture may or may not stand up to scrutiny, but the questions MacDonald seeks to draw to our attention deserve serious attention. Is it possible that evangelicals have misinterpreted scripture? Is it possible, as per the subtitle, that “God’s love will save us all”?

Kerr is not convinced and concludes that he “couldn’t recommend this book to anyone.” Why not? Are the arguments poorly constructed? Is the book badly written? Has MacDonald genuinely failed to engage with scripture? Does he offer us a selective reading that ignores difficult passages? Is he allowing woolly thinking to prejudice his conclusions, taking an ‘if only…’ approach that presupposes where it ends up? Has he abandoned any other supposedly essential tenets of evangelicalism? 

When you have a very tight word limit — as Christian Marketplace reviewers do — it’s impossible, of course, to address all the questions one might in a longer review. But in the case of this particular review, I suspect that the one star rating has more to do with the reviewer’s prejudices than with the merits or otherwise of the book.

If you, gentle reader, are a Christian bookseller trying to decide whether or not to stock this particular title, I invite you to read my interview with Gregory MacDonald before you make up your mind: given the tone of Kerr’s review, you may be in for a pleasant surprise…